The Verse That Sounds Like Jesus Contradicts Himself | Difficult Passages #13
Sean McDowell
apologetics
May 10, 2026
Did Jesus really tell us to hate our parents? In Luke 14:26, Jesus says, "If anyone comes to me and does not hate his own father and mother and wife and children and brothers and sisters, yes, even his own life, he cannot be my disciple." This seems to directly contradict the Fifth Commandment to honor your father and mother and Jesus's own teaching to love even your enemies. So what's actually going on here? In this conversation, Sean unpacks one of the most jarring passages in the Gospels with Eric, exploring what Jesus really meant when He used the language of "hate" and why this teaching was even more radical to His original audience than it sounds to ours.
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